Experiment on how dress affects your daily experience.
Day 1: Dress Down
Monday July 11, 2016. Woke up at 7:22am, remembered that I
needed to start my self-concept paper experience. Acknowledge the need for
proper undergarments for advanced sewing class, choose to leave my hair as I
woke up with to compensate. My attire- T-shirt from a gym, a pair of gym shorts
with a random high school logo on it, and dirty tennis shoes (ones I use in my
garden).
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A picture of me in my glorious dress down costume. |
The first thing that happened was my husband asking me if
that was what I was going to wear today. I knew it wasn’t malicious, just
curious because it looks a lot like what I wear as pajamas. I explained to him
the experiment and he began to tease me, for example “people are going to think
you are on campus to steal laptops from actual students.”
Getting to class wasn’t bad and for my first class it seemed
that nothing was different because of what I was wearing. I mean, I don’t
usually wear make-up and tend to dress casually, so this wasn’t too far from my
usual, but it was still different. Class interactions were all neutral.
The only other time I got a comment on what I was wearing
was at lunch. As I was joining a friend for lunch she said, “Did you just come
from the gym?” I replied, “No, advanced sewing.” Then we had other chit-chat
and it was as if nothing was different.
My husband picked me up after my last class and we went to
Macey’s to pick up boxes. Everyone we talked to was kind and helpful. Then we
went to the mall and visited Macy’s and the Sports Authority store. The
customer service people at Macy’s were friendly and helpful, letting us know of
a sale later in the week. The cash register person at Sports Authority was
friendly and told us stories about the store.
I personally had felt very apprehensive about going to the
mall and talking to people. Dressing down made me want to go home and lounge
rather than go out and about to do productive things. Also, throughout the day
I was afraid someone was going to call me out as doing the assignment and throw
off the experiment. Luckily my professor and anyone else who did notice did not
say anything.
All-in-all, I don’t think much changed in how people treated
me. The biggest difference the clothes had was on my motivation, but that could
just be because it was a Monday, maybe if I wore the same thing on a Saturday
morning I would feel like climbing a mountain, running a 5k, and weeding the
garden all before 10am. Only time will
tell.
Day 2: Dress Up
Wednesday, July 13, 2016. Woke up at 7:00am sharp. Continued
beauty regime from the night before. Straightened my hair, applied make-up
(which I rarely do and this time did much more than usual), and then continued
the rest of my regular getting ready routine. My attire, a blue dress with
white lace overlay with gold sparkly flats. I swapped my backpack for a large
purse to finish my look.
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My put-together and fancy look. |
Compliments, compliments, compliments. Everyone is stunned
and amazed at how beautiful I am. I can’t get away with my sneaky scheme as
everyone’s first question as I get to class is “Why are you dressed so nice?”
And my professor knows and then everyone knows. I only dress up for
assignments, apparently. The only other interaction lead by my choice of attire
was about what perfume I was wearing. I have observed previously that girls who
dress nice usually talk about how and what goes into their beauty routine.
When I ran to Bernina during my lunch break, I get prompt
service. Later when I went to Dillard’s, I got the same type of treatment.
Quick and accurate. It was only at Gamestop when the man asked if I was playing
PokemonGO that a salesperson talked to me like a person and not just a
customer. Maybe other people like that, but I think I enjoy friendlier
interactions with salespersons rather than professional business only.
Ironically, I felt the most insecure dressed up (needless to
say, as soon as I was home I changed my clothes). Part of it is because it is
far from my usual and I don’t feel that I’m doing it right, but it also related
a lot more to the day’s lecture on body image and the media. I really do not
feel myself in make-up and fancy clothes (except a few formal occasions). Anyhow, I think the most important thing I
learned is that beyond the first interactions, clothing didn’t change much. I
think if I were to completely change and go to a new school my experiences
would be a lot more different, but for the established relationships that I
have with people, nothing changed.
In review of the situation, I would say that my confidence
decreased when I dressed down but my insecurities remained stable. Whereas when
I dressed up, I felt a normal type of confidence (I’m still timid in my normal
attire) but my insecurities increased. Relating this to class I would say that
my self-image decreased when I dressed up (so I felt more insecure) because
what I looked like did not match my perceived psychological self. In dressing
down, my self-esteem was lower because I felt that others would perceive me differently
for dressing poorer than I usually do (even thought that wasn’t the case).
I do think that it is ironic that dressing up decreased my
self-image since it was doing more to match what is culturally acceptable for women.
I do think it confirms that fact thought because it is more about perceived psychological
self and physical self and I felt more in harmony when I dress closer to my perceived
self. Dressing down matched as well as I was more concerned about how others perceived
me which had me question my ability to interact with them.
Modern times has definitely made it more possible for me to
walk around in a t-shirt, gym shorts, and tennis shoes. Not only has times had
to change and that form of fashion to be created for women, but with all the
different feminist movements it has become acceptable for women to appear in
public not fully made up. I realize that the time period I was born made this
experiment possible and not as dramatic as most people in modern times are
accepting of customers and friends regardless of what they are wearing.
While dressing up and down was a great experiment (though
not as well-rounded as this
person’s experiment), I think that people will get
the most out of what they wear by matching what they feel on the inside. When
someone can feel like themself they will have more confidence. It can be hard
for some people to dress as themselves when their social group is not accepting
of that, but how one feels about themselves is infinitely more important than
what others think about them when it comes down to dealing with life better. I
hope to continue to pursue who I truly am in what I wear so that I can be more
confident and able.